Ask me anything   chelsea/mke

iverbz:

eluting:

an ideal date would be eating takeout dinner in our pjs while watching Netflix and you play with my hair

yall literally have the lowest standards in the history of the universe and there are animals that accept urine as a mating gift

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— 3 hours ago with 468922 notes
reminder for bisexuals

lyricalred:

today is bi visibility day. as such, bisexual people will be completely visible for the next 24 hours. this is a bad day to engage in bank heists, ghost impersonations, covert operations for vague yet menacing government agencies, and other common bisexual hobbies that rely upon our powers of invisibility. 

reblog to save a life. 

(via fatbodypolitics)

— 4 hours ago with 45813 notes
"

I’ll never punish my daughter for saying no.

The first time it comes out of her mouth, I’ll smile gleefully. As she repeats “No! No! No!” I’ll laugh, overjoyed. At a young age, she’ll have mastered a wonderful skill. A skill I’m still trying to learn. I know I’ll have to teach her that she has to eat her vegetables, and she has to take a nap. But “No” is not wrong. It is not disobedience.

1. She will know her feelings are valid.
2. She will know that when I no longer guide her, she still has a right to refuse.

The first time a boy pulls her hair after she says no, and the teacher tells her “boys will be boys,” we will go to her together, and explain that my daughter’s body is not a public amenity. That boy isn’t teasing her because he likes her, he is harassing her because it is allowed. I will not reinforce that opinion. If my son can understand that “no means no” so can everyone else’s.

3. She owes no one her silence, her time, or her cooperation.

The first time she tells a teacher, “No, that is wrong,” and proceeds to correct his public school, biased rhetoric, I’ll revel in the fact that she knows her history; that she knows our history. The first time she tells me “No” with the purpose and authority that each adult is entitled, I will stop. I will apologize. I will listen.

4. She is entitled to her feelings and her space. I, even a a parent, have no right to violate them.
5. No one has a right to violate them.

The first time my mother questions why I won’t make her kiss my great aunt at Christmas, I’ll explain that her space isn’t mine to control. That she gains nothing but self doubt when she is forced into unwanted affection. I’ll explain that “no” is a complete sentence. When the rest of my family questions why she is not made to wear a dress to our reunion dinner. I will explain that her expression is her own. It provides no growth to force her into unnecessary and unwanted situation.

6. She is entitled to her expression.

When my daughter leaves my home, and learns that the world is not as open, caring, and supportive as her mother, she will be prepared. She will know that she can return if she wishes, that the real world can wait. She will not want to. She will not need to. I will have prepared her, as much as I can, for a world that will try to push her down at every turn.

7. She is her own person. She is complete as she is.

I will never punish my daughter for saying no. I want “No” to be a familiar friend. I never want her to feel that she cannot say it. She will know how to call on “No” whenever it is needed, or wanted.

"
Lessons I Will Teach, Because the World Will Not — Y.S. (via poetryinspiredbyyou)

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— 5 hours ago with 66472 notes
#i dont even want kids but this is important 
mamaadweyaashkaa:

mangomamita:


Corsican vendetta knife with floral detail

che la mia ferita sia mortale"may my wound be deadly"

holy shit

mamaadweyaashkaa:

mangomamita:

Corsican vendetta knife with floral detail

che la mia ferita sia mortale
"may my wound be deadly"

holy shit

(Source: anti-romanticismo, via dannaofthesea)

— 13 hours ago with 104857 notes

overlypolitebisexual:

men like girls who “don’t know they are beautiful” because they are afraid that one day you will realise that you are the sun and the stars and he is nothing but a discarded plastic bag clogging up the ocean that you are

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— 13 hours ago with 67628 notes
let-them-eat-vag:

ashoutintothevoid:

Emma Sulkowicz is on the cover of this month’s New York Magazine and that is the coolest thing wow

DUUUUDE this is a huge fucking deal honestly


CHILLS

let-them-eat-vag:

ashoutintothevoid:

Emma Sulkowicz is on the cover of this month’s New York Magazine and that is the coolest thing wow

DUUUUDE this is a huge fucking deal honestly

CHILLS

(via burningmagnolias)

— 1 day ago with 178585 notes
creepy-fae:

also im drawing some androgynous flower heads who i love

creepy-fae:

also im drawing some androgynous flower heads who i love

(via shootpicturesnotpeople)

— 1 day ago with 6091 notes

nonelikerae:

gasolinefamily:

He comes to cuddle every single morning.

I need this

— 2 days ago with 273751 notes
nonelikerae:

This makes me so happy.

nonelikerae:

This makes me so happy.

(Source: lavagoth)

— 2 days ago with 188758 notes
unomikolife:

石垣の工事で、あと10年はこの光景を見られません。
毎年当たり前のように見て来たので、寂しいです。
あと10年・・・歳を考えると怖い。

unomikolife:

石垣の工事で、あと10年はこの光景を見られません。

毎年当たり前のように見て来たので、寂しいです。

あと10年・・・歳を考えると怖い。

(via nonelikerae)

— 2 days ago with 895 notes